Family Ties

cookie party ~ my favourite kind

2011-02-08T19:21:00.000-08:00

Cookies ...really is there any other comfort food that is so .....well comforting? There is nothing finer then splitting a warm cookie in half,as the chocolate drips onto your finger..waiting to be dipped into a wide glass of milk! I bet that homemaker in Massachusetts back in 1929 had no idea what she was about to do for all mankind when she accidental stumbled upon the chocolate chip cookie.... really just before the dirty 30's and the "crash," there was the chocolate chip cookie~ a little light before the darkness!

My girlfriend Tasha, she could be one of those homemakers who invents the next "chocolate chip cookie", so she sends out an email inviting a few of her friends over. She will provide the dry ingredients, if we bring the wet and all the 'fun' stuff that makes cookies become unique. Already I love this idea, good friends, good laughs.......

good food and a bunch of cookie dough to bring home for our freezers..... oh ya that is my idea of a great 'cookie exchange' (we can bake them at our convenience)

Love this one of my butt.....I had an apron that covered all of me ...except my butt (ironically the apron was perfectly clean xoxo)~ yes that is MY hand print in flour

What you learn when you are not looking~

2011-02-04T14:34:00.000-08:00

Blessings of Belonging to Relief Society: In keeping with the Relief Society’s motto, “Charity never faileth,” each sister is encouraged to develop and exercise the pure love of Christ in all aspects of her life. She is also encouraged to nurture and care for those in her family, her ward, and her community.

While I was called as the enrichment councilor in Relief Society, our bishop encouraged me to look outside of our traditional Relief Society meetings to encompass the true meaning of Charity Never Faileth. As I fasted and prayed about this task, an idea played out in my mind. The previous year we had made dinners for a local women's shelter, why not redecorate this same Women's Centre?
So in true Adrienne fashion I made it bigger then it had to be~ My original idea was to have two teams, and create a type of trading spaces year long theme. Each team would have a room to completely transform. They would have a head designer and access to a carpenter and a seamstress, they would also have a limited budget. The sisters would have the opportunity to learn several skills in mini classes we would hold throughout the months, including refinishing furniture, sewing,quilting,woodwork, reupolstering old finds from Sally Annes or Goodwill. Oh my mind was a buzz with the endless possibilities.
After contacting the shelter and explaining to them our idea of redecorating a couple of their rooms (they were thrilled).We invited the Human resources Director of the Shelter to come and explain the history of this particular shelter. The evening started with a beautiful dinner that my friends Tasha and Shannon helped me create. The tables were decorated with white table clothes and diamond shape pieces of cloth in the middle with large bird houses. The colours were spring-like and uplifting.
As the project went on it became clear to me the importance of downsizing this idea.
In the end we had two evenings with a small group of beautiful women, who gathered together and created memories, shared their talents, laughed, ate and learned a few things in the process.(A big thank you to all the sisters who helped in any way,shape or form for this project)
I hope you enjoy these pictures a friend of mine took...

the book shelf before

the book shelf after

the computer room ~this ended up being the shelters favourite change, you can not really tell by the angle of the shots but the room size looked like it doubled

The Living room before

Thank you Sister Smith ~the living room after ~ the toy box was also taken out and
the excess toys donated to Goodwill

Thank you Shannon and Kathy,Tasha and Jill
the scalloped valences turned out great

The women kept saying how the shelter looked like a home and the women who
worked there said they could not believe what a transformation had taken place.

These were so much fun to make ~Thank you Cassandra and Ang. ~the women at the shelter loved them and I taught them how to make their own ~their names in BOLD with positive descriptive words surrounding it. Our family actually did this for FHE to go along with the confrence talk What Have You Done with My Name?- Mervyn B. Arnold We discussed with each of our children how we had chosen their names how they had been named after great men and women ~people we respected and honoured, people we had grown to love and who we hoped they too would emulate. We then discussed the name we shared PUDDICOMBE and what we have tried to do to honour that name. We then came up with words that they thought would describe what Puddicombe stands for,words like hardworking,grateful,kind,faithful and compassionate

I found this quote and (just now) realized what Heavenly Father was trying to teach me throughout this experience.....sometimes traditional "charity" is NOT the obvious lesson we think we are being taught.

“Perhaps the greatest charity comes when we are kind to each other, when we don’t judge or categorize someone else, when we simply give each other the benefit of the doubt or remain quiet. Charity is accepting someone’s differences, weaknesses, and shortcomings; having patience with someone who has let us down; or resisting the impulse to become offended. … Charity is refusing to take advantage of another’s weakness and being willing to forgive someone who has hurt us. Charity is expecting the best of each other” (“The Tongue Can Be a Sharp Sword,” Ensign, May 1992, 18–19).

I am grateful for this lesson and for a loving Heavenly Father who knows how to stretch me in ways I could not see before!

Rhys's crafts

2011-02-01T10:13:00.000-08:00

We have done a lot of crafts over the past 5 years with Rhys. We are finding the older he gets the more complex the craft time is getting....

(There are a lot of pictures on our other laptop I will have to transfer them over so I can post them)

I can't believe this will be our last year with Rhys ~Grade 1 came to quickly to the life of this little boy and his caregiver xoxoxo

Jared turned 12

2011-02-01T08:48:00.000-08:00

Jared has had the opportunity to receive the Aaronic priesthood.

He has been studying the books Jon has lent him. We were able to have a FHE, we dressed in our Sunday best and headed off to the chapel where Ian and Jon taught us the roles and responsibility of an Aaronic priesthood holder Jon also taught Jared how and where to pass the sacrament ~ including where to sit if you want to serve to a certain family or young lady ~ awe the secrets we do not know about!

Our bishop and dear friend encouraged Jared to memorize the 13th section of the Doctrine and Covenant which reads

Section 13

The ordination of Joseph Smith and Oliver Cowdery to the Aaronic Priesthood along the bank of the Susquehanna River, near Harmony, Pennsylvania, 15 May 1829 (see History of the Church, 1:39–42). The ordination was done by the hands of an angel who announced himself as John, the same that is called John the Baptist in the New Testament. The angel explained that he was acting under the direction of Peter, James, and John, the ancient Apostles, who held the keys of the higher priesthood, which was called the Priesthood of Melchizedek. The promise was given to Joseph and Oliver that in due time the Priesthood of Melchizedek would be conferred upon them. (See section 27:7, 8, 12.)

The keys and powers of the Aaronic Priesthood are set forth.

1Upon you my fellow servants, in the name of Messiah I confer the Priesthood of Aaron, which holds the keys of the ministering of angels, and of the gospel of repentance, and of baptism by immersion for the remission of sins; and this shall never be taken again from the earth, until the sons of Levi do offer again an offering unto the Lord in righteousness.

Definition and Purposes of the Aaronic PriesthoodThe priesthood is the power and authority of God. It is conferred upon worthy male members of the Church. Those who hold priesthood keys direct the administration of the ordinances of the gospel, the preaching of the gospel, and the government of the kingdom of God on the earth.

The Aaronic Priesthood holds “the key of the ministering of angels and the preparatory gospel; which gospel is the gospel of repentance and of baptism, and the remission of sins” (D&C 84:26–27; see also D&C 13:1; 107:20). The Aaronic Priesthood also “has power in administering outward ordinances” (D&C 107:14).

For more information about the purposes of the priesthood and priesthood keys, see chapter 2.

8.1.1 Aaronic Priesthood Offices and Duties
The offices in the Aaronic Priesthood are deacon, teacher, priest, and bishop. Each priesthood office has rights and responsibilities of service, including authority to administer priesthood ordinances. For information about ordination to the offices of deacon, teacher, and priest, see 20.7.

Deacon
Worthy brethren may receive the Aaronic Priesthood and be ordained deacons when they are at least 12 years old. A deacon has the following responsibilities:

He lives a righteous life and remains worthy to exercise the priesthood. He sets a good example for fellow quorum members and other Church members.

He passes the sacrament (see 20.4.3).

He serves as a standing minister, “appointed to watch over the church” (D&C 84:111). He is also to “warn, expound, exhort, and teach, and invite all to come unto Christ” (D&C 20:59). This responsibility includes fellowshipping quorum members and other young men, notifying members of Church meetings, speaking in meetings, sharing the gospel, and bearing testimony.

He assists the bishop in “administering … temporal things” (D&C 107:68). This responsibility may include gathering fast offerings, caring for the poor and needy, caring for the meetinghouse and grounds, and serving as a messenger for the bishop in Church meetings.

He participates in quorum instruction by being an active student of the gospel.

He assists the bishopric in other ways consistent with the office of a deacon. He also assists teachers “in all [their] duties in the church … if occasion requires” (D&C 20:57).
We are so very pleased with you Jared as you follow the footsteps of your older brother, father, uncles and grandfathers.

FHE

2011-02-01T08:05:00.000-08:00

We have been inviting Ian's brother Mark and his twins over for Family Home Evening lately. He was not able to make it this last Monday night ~tis the season~ Too bad because he missed out on a great FHE dessert by Jared.

CREPES

Ingredients:

- 1 egg

- 3/4 cup milk

- 1/2 cup flour

- 2 tablespoon melted butter

- 1/2 teaspoon orange zest

- 1 tablespoon sugar

- Vanilla (optional)

1- In a mixer or a blender add all ingredients except flour and blend well for 2 minutes.

2- Add the flour to the blender and pulse 7 times.

3- Pour the mixture in a bowl, cover and place it in the fridge for 45 minutes to an hour.

4- In a nonstick pan, add half cup of crepes, remove pan from heat and swirl it, so the batter coats the bottom of the pan. If you get holes in the crepe, pour small amount from the batter to cover the holes.

5- The batter will quickly dry, and the moment it looses its shine, turn it over.

6- When crepe has finished cooking, gently slide it out onto a plate

We added apple filling on the inside with powder sugar and whipping cream (also strawberries and blueberries for the garnish)

Yummy xoxoxoxo

Master Chef ~ Jon

2011-01-08T19:43:00.000-08:00

Jon was in the kitchen cooking up a storm ~ He had invited our family over (Uncle Mark, Auntie Jo and the twins) for a feast of his creation..... but the flu hit our home,so he came up with plan B. He had to create a 'take- out' meal He and Ian delivered it to the Puddicombe home then returned to feed our family ~ I didn't actually get a bite, but from the sounds coming from the dining room (while I lay sick on the couch) He did a great job! ~Congratulations Jon It had colour, taste, variety,and All four food groups! `better then the top romon & mac n cheese usual ~things are looking up xoxoxo

~ He even set the little table for the twins

Jon received a call that evening....rave reviews from the guest of honour

Emma and Alyssa

2010-12-30T06:34:00.000-08:00

These two girls have been best Friends for what seems like a lifetime~ They started off in Elementary school together (kindergarten), lived on the same street until 7 years ago...We thought for sure when we moved away to London the friendship would fizzle and disappear.
No chance...the girls would call each other on the phone or MSN one another, We would visit with Alyssa when we were down in Brampton and often while school was out; Christmas, March break and summer holidays we would pick up Alyssa & bring her back to London to spend a week or two with our family.
With their lives changing and the unknown future looming I wonder where they will end up ~Though something we do not wonder is if their friendship will last! To the future and the adventures it will bring!

something merry & bright

2010-12-29T20:36:00.000-08:00

Christmas traditions

2010-12-29T17:06:00.000-08:00

We have created many Christmas traditions over the 20 years Ian and I have been together. Some have died off and some are still going strong...we have even thrown in a few new ones.

At Christmas we have a day of baking, putting together treats for our neighbours We sometimes even muster up enough courage to carol while we deliver them one evening close to Christmas eve

We have a small box of straw that we use to symbolize our gifts to the Christ~child.
Each member of our family puts a piece of straw in the empty manger every time they do a kind deed for someone the months leading up to Christmas. The manger is filled with soft,cozy straw by Christmas eve to comfort the baby.

~before we began~

We read from a special book during our morning devotional. It consists of a verse from the scriptures,a song and an inspirational story ~ Our dear friends the Davies gave it to us about 12 years ago.

We are invited to a friends home for a special Christmas FHE. We enjoy a little Christmas themed talent show, some wonderful food and Old Saint Nick even shows up!

We spend Christmas eve with dear friends,talking and laughing and of course eating.

Christmas Morning we wake up.

Mom goes downstairs and turns the fireplace,music and Christmas lights on.

After unwrapping the gifts~this is a special gift Aaron received,his baptism blanket (comforter to represent the comfort the Holy Ghost brings us) Hey I know it is a year late ~but at least he is not heading off on his mission which is when I thought it would be finished by.......

We sit down to a traditional English breakfast
~Yummy~ Then we head off to visit Grandma/pa Puddicombe's. All 7 children,
4 in laws and 14 grandchildren....it can get a little crazy but my favourite part is when everyone gets into their PJ's the lights are dim the Christmas lights are twinkling and Grandma reads from Luke ~then we sing the carol that coincides with the verse.

Wishing you a Merry Christmas

2010-12-16T19:54:00.000-08:00

We have had a wonderful year, full of joys and frustration, hopes and achievements.
Ian and adrienne's business is growing strong and Ian continues loving the choice he made to follow his dream of owning his own business.
We have been released from the Relief Society and Elders Quorum Presidency and hit the "big Times" we have been called to the nursery....If you have never had this calling you won't understand what is about to be said "BEST calling ever"...no really at first I was nervous...really me in nursery? But WOW!!! we are loving it. These children are amazing & we love being with them.
Emma is graduating this year from High School. We will have a graduate, she is trying to decide what comes next, school ,which one and where? Major? She eventually wants to be a primary school teacher.(which we believe she will be amazing at!)She is busy right now with friends,choirs,being Laurels President, dating and driving.
Jon is finishing off grade 10, he is busy with friends, Ninjitzu, piano and of course trying to figure out how to keep his curly locks under control.
Jared is busy with choir, robotics, library help, safety guard, friends and how to build the most amazing snow fort with his best friend & little brother Aaron.
Aaron is forever busy with his friends,He is outside as much as he can possibly be. He is loving grade 3, cubs and his primary teacher.
They are all growing up so fast. It is so enjoyable as their parents, to watch them grow and develop their personalities, talents and self esteem. The older they get the more we understand our roles with them; to guide them, watch them, teach them, be a good example then let them figure it out on their own (wow, that last one is hard)
We hope you and your family are happy and healthy looking forward to the new year!

We are a happy family......(set to music)

2010-12-13T07:39:00.000-08:00

We had a lot of fun having these shots taken. Jon was keeping us on our toes with his usual jovial wit and commentary ~ enough so that the photographer had to tell him to stop talking and get a little more serious (too bad he is so very obedient)

This site is an old farm house, the actual home stead was swept away in the 50's when a tornado "blew past these parts" ~quote taken from the local farmer who stopped plowing to come share with us the history of the area. Our children guessed he was close to 90 years old ~ just to help with the image
The location was very rustic and had a neat feeling to it (though I think our next choice will be an old red barn ~ I love that look , especially with the white snow and the deep red of the barn) Our photographer http://www.spiritualbirthblog.com/ was amazing especially considering she was 9 months pregnant (due any day) And had to deal with the cold day and our shenanigans. We hope you enjoy the pictures as it tells the story of the adventures we had that day!

Emma is one year older and wiser too.....happy birthday to you xoxoxo

2010-11-20T17:50:00.001-08:00

Emma-leigh Elisabeth Puddicombe born September 27th 6'13 21 inches long!
WOW! Was that really 17 years ago?
We have learned much as parents, but we think one of the most important things is that these children are only on loan. We often observe Emma and wonder how old she really is! -she was born that way 'a wise old soul,' my father had commented the first time he held her - He also advised us not to squash her spirit! I certainly hope we have succeeded in this area of letting her discover who she really is and what her purpose is here.
Often comments are made by friends when in a conversation with Emma and I "who is the parent here?" She just has this quality of knowing the right path to take and making the best choice. She has a wonderful relationship with her Heavenly Father and earthly father - (is it inappropriate for me to say she has both wrapped around her finger?)
Emma is now trying to decide which college to attend and where....It only seems like yesturday we were preparing her for her first drive home!
Here are some pictures of her 17th birthday

Liam Patrick Stevens

2010-10-19T11:48:00.000-07:00

I know I am sorry I have not been great at keeping on top of this blogging thing....actually it is the whole computer thing lately I have lost interest in
( I wonder if when phones first came out, some pioneer women somewhere said the same thing?)
Anyway I digress...
We have had wonderful news Ian's sister Melissa and her wonderful husband have given birth to a bouncing baby boy....OH HE IS SO HANDSOME!.....Liam Patrick Stevens arrived just in time for Thanksgiving!
Take a look ...

He is one of the lucky ones he has been sent to a family who will love him and care for him ...I am excited to watch this sweet boy grow and develop ... I also love observing his mom watching him xoxo so grateful for little miracles and how they change our perspective of this world!

Where it all began

2010-07-19T07:40:00.000-07:00

We have this great tradition - Every July we head down to Palmyra New York to join thousands of other LDS and Non LDS to participate in North Americas largest outdoor Pageant
We camp (well we stay in a cabin) we enjoy family time together,swimming,playing games frog hunting etc
Though my favourite time is on Sunday morning when we head over to the grove of trees where it all began
Where on one spring morning a young 14 year old boy knelt in a grove of trees and prayed aloud to find out which church he should join
As a young boy in 1820, Joseph Smith wanted to know which church was true. As he searched the Bible for help, he read that he should ask of God. Acting on this counsel, Joseph went into the woods near his home and prayed. Suddenly, a light shone above him and Heavenly Father and Jesus Christ appeared to him. When Joseph asked which church he should join, the Savior told him to join none of the churches then in existence because they were teaching incorrect doctrines. Through this experience and many others that followed, the Lord chose Joseph to be His prophet and to restore the gospel of Jesus Christ and His Church to the earth.

Happy Father's day

2010-06-16T10:15:00.001-07:00

I am so very grateful for the 'Fathers' in my life. My father who raised me, is one of those men you will always look up too.I have so many wonderful memories of working on our hobby farm, mucking out the barn every Saturday with he and I in our matching dungarees ...He and my mother taught us the joy of hard work and the gift of selfless service and of looking on the bright side of everything -For these gifts I am grateful!
My Father in laws is a wonderful man, who has brought me into his family with open arms and never treated me like anything other then a daughter.
My own sweet Ian has become the father I always hoped for my own children. fun, loving, tender, a hard worker and wonderful provider.
To these men I wish a wonderful FATHER'S day - may you feel of the love and gratitude of those who you touch!

A Boyz Adventure

2010-06-12T13:37:00.000-07:00

The idea all started when the weekends were becoming busier and busier....
I told Jared and Aaron, Joe and Tanner "we are heading up to the cottage, for a break before the crazy joy of summer begins!"
So an all boys weekend was planned. I purchased food that was 'boy',games that were 'boy',snacks that were 'boy' and even brought up a 'boy' movie!
We started out the evening on the canoe and kayak - looking for secret islands and alligator (long floating logs) We headed back for land , the cubs set up the folding chairs and table and got the fire sticks ready, I got the hot dogs, s'mores, drinks and story stick ready and the scouts got the fire (log cabin style) ready. It wasn't dark enough yet so we headed into the cottage got into our P.J's and played a couple rounds of UNO spin.

Around 9pm we headed down to the fire started it up (competition of course) -everyone got 1 match, Jared's match won
We enjoyed the dogs and s'mores then we got out the 'story stick' and enjoyed a couple ScArY stories (the story stick begins with one person who starts the story and gets passed around until the last person finishes the story) Then we sang some good old camp fire songs, doused the fire and headed up to brush our teeth and enjoy a movie - NOAH ( a Disney flick)
Everyone slept well in there own rooms -Thank goodness....
The next morning we ate breakfast - The boys had requested French Toast cereal and Golden Grahams (nice and easy)
We headed back down to the dock - some of the boys took a dip while others kayaked and looked for minnows etc
We hung out by the water until lunch then set up the water balloon catapults and slip n slide
By 3pm the clouds were rolling in so we voted and decided to call it a day. After we cleaned up got changed had a snack and headed home by 4pm.
Just in time to get supper, a bath and our clothes ready for the Sabbath
What an Awesome weekend the boys were great; considering I kept them up way to late!
Hope you enjoy the pictures not sure if they captured all the fun but at least a sneak peak.

Miracles do happen - to those who wait!

2010-06-11T06:40:00.000-07:00

An Adventure to Arizona to meet my youngest nephew Liam Stephen Kelly and a side trek to the Great Salt Lake

I fell in love with my niece all over again and enjoyed spending time with a wonderful family, reminding me of long past days of sleepless nights and early mornings....The adventure is just starting for my big brother's young family! Enjoy every moment it will not be long before it takes a little more then the 'count of three' and a 'magic kiss' from mommy to cure the world's woo's....Grateful for the time we had together - and though I promised years ago to 'corrupt' these children of my brother...I feel his gene's have done it for me! - Love you Bro...Take care of this beautiful family xoxoxoxo

Two peas in a pod! - watch out world

Nea's beautiful new dress for Liam's Blessing

Nana's tradition - homemade with love from mothers wedding gown

Fun hand outs at Liam's Blessing - Let-us rejoice !

The Adventure to The Great Salt Lake - A brother sister adventure - too much fun!

My oh My -David in a dress!......

He is looking more and more like Davie do.....Who knew we had such strong genes?

Once Upon a Tea Cup

2010-06-11T04:28:00.001-07:00

A TEA PARTY FOR 38

We had a wonderful day, A few of my girl friends picked me up and brought me to a new little restaurant - Once upon a Tea Cup. It was so nice to celebrate with friends.
A day of laughter and sunshine...Memories captured by http://www.spiritualbirthphotography.com/ Thanks Vanessa you are awesome!
Here are some fun quotes about birthdays and growing older! enjoy

“Youth is happy because it has the ability to see beauty. Anyone who keeps the ability to see beauty never grows old.”
- Franz Kafka

“I remember when the candle shop burned down. Everyone stood around singing “Happy Birthday”."
- Author Unknown

“There are three hundred and sixty-four days when you might get un-birthday presents ... and only one for birthday presents, you know. “
- Author Unknown

“At times is it seems that I am living my life backward, and that at the approach of old age my real youth will begin. My soul was born covered with wrinkles-wrinkles that my ancestors and parents most assiduously put there and that I had the greatest trouble removing,...”
- Andre Gide

“The best birthdays of all are those that haven't arrived yet.”
- Author Unknown

“The day which we fear as our last is but the birthday of eternity.”
- Author Unknown

“For all the advances in medicine, there is still no cure for the common birthday.”
- Author Unknown

“Your birthday is a special time to celebrate the gift of 'you' to the world.”
- Author Unknown

“I want to be an artist
To paint pictures just for you,
So when each birthday comes around,
I can send you quite a few.”
- Anonymous

“The secret to eternal youth is arrested development.”
- Alice Roosevelt Longworth

“It is utterly false and cruelly arbitrary to put all the play and learning into childhood, all the work into middle age, and all the regrets into old age.”
- Margaret Mead

“There was a star danced, and under that was I born.”
- William Shakespeare

Seminary Graduation

2010-06-10T08:49:00.000-07:00

High-school-age Mormon youth are encouraged to enroll in a four-year course of religious education in addition to their normal school classes.

The classes are typically held before school on weekdays, but in areas with heavy concentrations of Latter-day Saints may be held during the school day.
The aim of the program, known as “seminary,” is to help students become familiar with the scriptures and to apply scriptural principles and lessons in daily living.
The students are taught one-year courses on the following four subjects: Old Testament, New Testament, Book of Mormon, and Doctrine and Covenants (a modern volume of scripture) and Church history. A seminary class usually includes teaching by the instructor and discussions with students.
During 2005, over 363,000 students participated in seminary classes around the world.

Our high school children have graduated another year of seminary , A time honored tradition in both Ian's and my family growing up.

It plays out differently in every home but in ours this is a typical scene at 5:45 every morning
Emma (walking into our bedroom)- "good morning mom it's time to get up!"
Emma turns on the bathroom light and gets herself ready for the day
Jon is next, he heads to the bathroom gets dressed then we all head downstairs for breakfast
Mom makes lunches and we head out the door to pick up a friend of Em's, then off to Seminary!
Arriving most mornings at 6:25.

Growing up in my home in Queensland N.S I can remember waking up with my whole family - my dad and Jon (my oldest brother) would sit at the dining room table and study the scriptures and work out of a seminary home study guide. While my mom ,Dave (my middle brother) and I would sit together in the living room on dad's big comfy chair reading from the scriptures and talking about how these experiences applied to our lives!

As I grew older and the boys left home it was my turn to attend seminary. I remember begging my parents to let me go to early morning seminary with all my friends! I really need to see them in the morning and have the bonus of knowing we were all going out into the world that day but not alone (when you are the only LDS youth in your school you can feel pretty alone!
I was so grateful for my parents sacrifice getting up at 5am leaving the house by 6am so we would get there on time - During grade 9 I was still in Jr High So my seminary teacher would drive me back out 1/2 an hour out and back to drop me off at school (I was able to thank him a few years back,while on a trip to Nova Scotia, I hope he knows how grateful I am for his families sacrifice so I could attend with my friends)
In grade 10 and 11 I made a deal with my parents if i could get my grades up , could I choose the high school I wanted to go to! - By this time I was an only child and our family structure had changed a great deal! (no more goats to feed and milk, no chickens to tend to) My parents both worked in the city at Dalhousie University and held heavy callings in the church that kept them at meetings.
I finally choose a high school that 2 other members would be attending! My cousin and best friend Lis and a young women that I looked up to. I was thrilled! - My parents not so much, There plan was to have me go to a private school, located close to the University; one that held classes on horseback riding etc....(I still wonder why I did not take them up on this offer - except I know I would have stayed in NS when they moved to TO and I would have not met Ian and lived the wonderful life that is now mine!
A lot of wonderful people sacrificed in order for me to attend early morning seminary and to them I will be eternally grateful to Sister Rose, who invited me to sleep in her home on Thursday nights so I did not miss seminary on Friday (held in Bedford with sister Haas) For my Aunt and Uncle who let me stay in there home (my home away from home)and my cousin who didn't get annoyed with the friendly "Good Morning" every morning (Don't worry Lis, Emma has taken over that role!) For my parents who some how had a testimony of a program they were unable to participate in themselves as youth!
I have such a strong testimony of this inspired program...It only makes sense to put on your armor before you go out to battle in this world! To study the scriptures before heading off to school and the temptations of that day!

A DAY AT THE BEACH

2010-06-02T05:26:00.000-07:00

The weather here in Southern Ontario has been beautiful
So I convienced a few of my friens to play 'hookie' with me and we
spent the day at the beach!

It was wonderful...the sky was blue the water was calm and the san was warm under our feet! good friends, good food , good memories! - I love mental health days!

Two great reminders I have received lately!

2010-04-20T07:46:00.000-07:00

I took this article out of an LDS living magazine, some of it relates to us and some doesn't! Overall I loved what the author states about sharing a good, honest, loving smile! -ENJOY

"Getting people to smile on demand is a bit tricky. Attempts to get my sizeable family bathed, dressed, and looking pleasant for a picture is like medieval torture. Just saying the words “family portrait” makes me break out in a cold sweat.

When my unenthusiastic family is finally lined up for this mother-initiated activity, I feel great compassion for our frazzled photographer.

"Pull that finger out of your nose," the photographer says. "Would the teenager on the back row take off the sunglasses? Now on the count of three, everybody look at me and say 'pickles.' One, two, three--pickles!"

(We don't have this problem in the Puddicombe family - In fact we intentionally keep it pretty relaxed - Probably why we do it every year!)

Why do we want to see ourselves smiling in pictures? Why not just snap a realistic photo of family members milling around showing their true mood at the moment? Because we all look and feel better when we smile.

While insisting others smile can be a cause of great frustration, getting ourselves to smile will always bring us joy.

I remember a time when I was worried about one of my teenage sons. I prayed long and hard asking God to teach me how to love my son. The impression I received was simple: smile. This answer perplexed me. Still, I gave it a try. I began smiling at my son more often. I made an effort to catch his eye and smile at him during breakfast and supper. I noticed myself appreciating him more and becoming keenly aware of his courage in the face of adolescence. I wasn't sure at the time if he noticed, or if it meant anything to him--teenage boys aren't famous for expressing tender emotions. Some time later I received a letter from this son, who had become an adult:

"Dear Mom, thank you for smiling at me. When I was making my most difficult decisions, I would see your face in my mind, smiling," he wrote. "I knew you loved me, and it made all the difference."

Smiling is also a great way to meet new people. Once I was sitting in the Marriott Center at BYU during a Women's Conference. I was one of the speakers that day, but none of my family or friends could make it to listen to my talk. I was feeling sad and alone, even though there were thousands of women all around me. At that very moment, the woman sitting next to me turned and smiled.It felt like she'd tossed me a ball of sunshine. Instantly, I no longer felt alone or sad. I had the impression that if this woman and I knew each other, we would be friends. It occurred to me that I was surrounded by family and friends--I just hadn't met or smiled at them yet.

We unlock our personal power for good when we offer the gift of a genuine and loving smile. Turning up the corners of our mouths helps us spread sunshine everywhere we go. So on those days when we feel inferior, worried, diminished, sad, or lonely, we need to get out there and start smiling. I've learned my day usually goes the same way as the corners of my mouth."

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Adapted from 15 Secrets to a Happy Home, by Janene Wolsey

Let me explain why we LOVE this picture; the laughter is due to our sweet nephew Spencer, who had just struggled to get his family photos taken -walked happily into ours - he is actually holding Em's hand in this shot

I am grateful for the smiles I receive in a day!

The next article was an e-mail my mom and dad sent me (The shop keeper reminds me of my parents)

RED MARBLES

I was at the corner grocery store buying some early potatoes.. I noticed a small boy, delicate of bone and feature, ragged but clean, hungrily appraising a basket of freshly picked green peas.

I paid for my potatoes but was also drawn to the display of fresh green peas. I am a pushover for creamed peas and new potatoes.
Pondering the peas, I couldn't help overhearing the conversation between Mr. Miller (the store owner) and the ragged boy next to me.
'Hello Barry, how are you today?'

'H'lo , Mr. Miller. Fine, thank ya. Jus' admirin' them peas. They sure look good.'

'They are good, Barry. How's your Ma?'

'Fine. Gittin' stronger alla' time.'

'Good. Anything I can help you with?'

'No, Sir. Jus' admirin' them peas.'

'Would you like to take some home ?' asked Mr.. Miller.

'No, Sir. Got nuthin' to pay for 'em with.'

'Well, what have you to trade me for some of those peas?'

'All I got's my prize marble here.'

'Is that right? Let me see it' said Miller..

'Here 'tis. She's a dandy.'

'I can see that. Hmmmmm, only thing is this one is blue and I sort of go for red. Do you have a red one like this at home ?' the store owner asked.

'Not zackley but almost..'

'Tell you what. Take this sack of peas home with you and next trip this way let me look at that red marble'.. Mr. Miller told the boy.

'Sure will. Thanks Mr. Miller.'

Mrs. Miller, who had been standing nearby, came over to help me.. With a smile she said, 'There are two other boys like him in our community, all three are in very poor circumstances Jim just loves to bargain with them for peas, apples, tomatoes, or whatever. When they come back with their red marbles, and they always do, he decides he doesn't like red after all and he sends them home with a bag of produce for a green marble or an orange one, when they come on their next trip to the store..'

I left the store smiling to myself, impressed with this man. A short time later I moved to Colorado , but I never forgot the story of this man, the boys, and their bartering for marbles.

Several years went by, each more rapid than the previous one. Just recently I had occasion to visit some old friends in that Idaho community and while I was there learned that Mr.. Miller had died.

They were having his visitation that evening and knowing my friends wanted to go, I agreed to accompany them. Upon arrival at the mortuary we fell into line to meet the relatives of the deceased and to offer whatever words of comfort we could.

Ahead of us in line were three young men. One was in an army uniform and the other two wore nice haircuts, dark suits and white shirts...all very professional looking. They approached Mrs. Miller, standing composed and smiling by her husband's casket. Each of the young men hugged her, kissed her on the cheek, spoke briefly with her, and moved on to the casket.

Her misty light blue eyes followed them as, one by one; each young man stopped briefly and placed his own warm hand over the cold pale hand in the casket. Each left the mortuary awkwardly, wiping his eyes.

Our turn came to meet Mrs. Miller. I told her who I was and reminded her of the story from those many years ago and what she had told me about her husband's bartering for marbles. With her eyes glistening, she took my hand and led me to the casket

'Those three young men who just left were the boys I told you about. They just told me how they appreciated the things Jim 'traded' them. Now, at last, when Jim could not change his mind about color or size.....they came to pay their debt.'

'We've never had a great deal of the wealth of this world,' she confided, 'but right now, Jim would consider himself the richest man in Idaho..'

With loving gentleness she lifted the lifeless fingers of her deceased husband. Resting underneath were three exquisitely shined red marbles.

The Moral: We will not be remembered by our words, but by our kind deeds.. Life is not measured by the breaths we take, but by the moments that take our breath....

Today I wish you a day of ordinary miracles ~A smile handed out for free..An unexpected phone call from an old friend...Green stoplights on your way to work.....The fastest line at the grocery store...A good sing-along song on the radio...Your keys found right where you left them.

Example of the Believers

2010-02-25T07:42:00.000-08:00

Please watch this little story of some great youth and how they were examples- by touching the mouse to the highlighted word below -enjoy

Example of the Believers

I am grateful for the'examples' in my life - grateful for those who know to see eternally and not just in this life ...Be thou an EXAMPLE...

HEARTS for Haiti

2010-01-30T12:18:00.000-08:00

My girlfriend and I through our business, http://theflourgirls.netalong with our local scout group have come up with a plan for the boys to help with the people of Haiti

Though you cannot participate unless in the local area please feel free to come up with your own original idea to help our friends in Haiti.

Wedding....oh what a night

2010-01-30T11:13:00.000-08:00

My Sister, Melissa had a wonderful wedding. Everything about it was Melissa. Relaxed, fun, simply decorated, What a great night!

Melissa and Kevin met and he won the hearts of each of us. (with a little 'Faith') ...They are a great little family...one with hopes and dreams we all pray will come true!

Christmas

2010-01-28T10:12:00.000-08:00

Christmas was nice and quiet yet we seemed to pack in lots of fun!
We started Christmas early bacause my parents were leaving to go off to Arizona,Utah,Samoa.

The Boyz and I participated in a play - 'A Night In Bethlehem'.

(picture of 1 of our practises)

We were invited to a great family Home Evening night at friends of ours (what a fun tradition) Then of course our adventure to Florida, followed by a fun Christmas Eve party at our home (for all our dear friends who do not have family in London)

Finishing off 2009 with a day of sledding and a potluck /games at the chapel. I feel like I have been on vacation for so long ....I don't want to get back into the 'real' world!

Christmas in Florida

2010-01-27T06:28:00.000-08:00

The trip all started one Sunday evening, as we sat around discussing how much fun it would be to go on an adventure to Disney together ...before we knew it the flight was booked and dear friends arranged for us to stay at their timeshare. within a few days we found ourselves sitting on a flight to sunny Florida. It was a great flight, it makes the time 'fly' when traveling with friends.....

Our family outside of MGM studios

The boyz at honey we shrunk the kids playground area

One of my highlights, this was a cute little show outside of the Star Wars ride.
Jared and Aaron were glued to this show ...It was teaching the kids the moral of Star Wars ...how we need to fortify ourselves against Satan and how the priesthood will help in our life's journey. -my favourite comment was from Jared. He really could see the metaphor He really believed that is what they were teaching!

The days were full of Disney park adventures and the nights with swimming in the pool just outside our backdoor.
We visited MGM Disney and Blizzard beach,Downtown Disney with Disney Quest
(a gamers paradise) and Lego land
I have to apoligize, I have made a new years resolution to take more photos of our families experiences....I was having so much fun I forgot to pick up the camera to record the adventure.

Yummy!

2010-01-17T17:31:00.000-08:00

Emma's culinary skills have been more advanced in resent months due to this wonderful course she is taking at school.
She and Jon have been cooking every Tues and Thursday for a while now and Emma has always had great confidence but through this course we have seen a lot more confidence and creativity .....which of course is benefiting our home cooked meals xoxoxo

Halloween

2010-01-17T17:20:00.000-08:00

all hallows eve and the teens in the house are invited to a friends for some spooky 'Mormon style' fun.
We have an amazing youth program here and the kids get along great.
We as parents are trying to encourage them to 'hang out' more ....so the weekend parties are frequent and full of adventure..... we will keep you posted on any future events of interest!

A Date with Nana and Papa

2010-01-17T16:26:00.000-08:00

Emma is taking a hospitality and tourism class in high school; one of her assignments is to critic local restaurants so my parents thought it would be a great excuse to take her out on a special date.

Papa and Nana took Emma out on a date, what a wonderful night! They went to a beautiful resturant here in London called Micheal on the themes.

Samoa....

2010-01-17T15:55:00.000-08:00

The mission call finally came! After a lot of doctors appointments, dental checkups, visa mix ups and scheduling plane tickets.....they are on their way to......(drum roll please...) Western SAMOA....Where? ya we looked it up too; thank goodness for google earth.
Mom and dad came over to our home for family home evening and we conference called Jon, Lyndi and Jonathan, Dave, Stephanie .... "The envelop please!" - There was great excitement and congratulations .... Off to Arizona for American Thanksgiving and Christmas then the MTC then sunny, beautiful, friendly Samoa
Bon voyage we will be praying for you and anxiously awaiting those letters to hear about the adventures and building of the Kingdom.

40....wow funny how that isn't old anymore

2009-11-03T06:33:00.000-08:00

What a fun night, and a great way to celebrate Ian turning 40!

'Oh what a night'... 'A Professional D.J'- a friend of ours used to dj in Utah and pulled some strings and had an old associate put together a remix of a bunch of 80's music....'totally awesome!!' Oh and we found out that it isn't only the 'girls that just want to have fun...'
We danced ,sang, ate, laughed and ate some more....It was so fun to see all the different styles of the times (and how 'the banker' used to be a 'rock on') The valley girls were there by the dozens.... Wow am I glad I made it through the 80's without to many scares... (It does remind me not to rebuke my children to much for their 'creative dress' ...though I must admit they are ultra conservative) ....The scariest news is....THE 80's ARE COMING BACK..... yes you heard me right....Madonna gloves and Cindi shirts are in a store near you.....FAME I want to live forever..is even out in theaters...I guess this proves we are old when the cycle o your teenage years come back in style to haunt you ....big bangs hear I come xoxoxo
P>S I want to thank all those who were involved in the planning of this event...it will be spoken about for many years to come!

Our little girl turns 16

2009-10-20T08:48:00.000-07:00

Can you believe it? Our little girl is 16.....I have a 16 year old ...I can remember being 16..
Ian, the boyz and I could not have asked for a better 16 year old.
She is thoughtful, loving,compassionate and has a strong testimony of who she is and her relationship with her Heavenly parents.
What do you do when your only daughter turns 16 on a Sunday? We had a little celebration for her at a friends home. It was wonderful to see so many people gather to celebrate Emma's special day. All day at church, sisters handed Emma a single flower with a card attatched saying something special (a real treasure for Em)
On the Saturday before our phone rang and a 'special young man' called to ask for a date.."I have been waiting 16 years to ask you ..." her dad took her out to the movies...He came to the door with a dozen daisies and a single pink rose....be your own kind of beautiful xoxoxo We love you Emma enjoy the next few years xoxoxothey will be fun ones!

The flourgirls

2009-09-23T08:19:00.001-07:00

My girlfriend and I have started a new business!

Come visit us online www.theflourgirls.net
We are at the beginning stages, but are very excited. As parents, we understand how tough it can be to make school lunches everyday and we are here to help. Go picnic! offers delicious, homemade, earth-friendly lunches made fresh to order and delivered right to your childs homeroom. Our lunches cater to every child's needs and are guaranteed to please. Vegetarians, children with allergies and even fussy eaters will enjoy eating the lunch that was made just for them. School lunches have never been easier. We truly believe this is an inspired business. We are able to serve our community and still be at home with our families.... Wish us luck!

These are some pictures taken at our photo shoot...enjoy - we hope you can hear the laughter of this day xoxo

Emma's 'family' b-day party

2009-09-22T19:51:00.001-07:00

Emma is turning 16 on Sunday.... We really can not believe it. Honestly, sometimes I still feel like I am going to wake up from a dream...how did those years fly by so quickly?
We could not have asked for a better daughter and friend, her heart is pure and she has no guile, she has brought joy and peace to our family, she is an awesome example of what we should be doing and how we should treat others .... Emma, always let your light so shine , and thank you for being such a big part of our lives xoxoxo

Family Reunion

2009-09-02T10:16:00.000-07:00

The weather didn't always agree with us;

But fun times were had by all !

The Food was great, the games were entertaining,

everything from kickball (making homemade icecream)

to bouchey ball - it wasn't my idea to do pushups!

the children enjoyed the crafts - & so did some of the adults.

my favourite was sitting around the campfire listening to delightful chatter

and the sound of impromto song.

- Thank you to all who joined in the fun

sorry to all those who couldn't make this one.....maybe next time!

A 'boyz' Adventures in Zarahemla

2009-07-30T08:57:00.000-07:00

Our son's have spent most of their summer in a secluded park area. It is located very close to our home, it is a wooded area with walking paths, streams and all the creepy crawly creatures a young boys heart could desire! They have claimed it their own and have "declared it be known from this day forth as Zarahemla!" These are pictures from one of their adventures 'finding the waters of Mormon' Hope you enjoy it as much as we did xoxoxo

Traditions

2009-07-25T07:35:00.000-07:00

We have created many traditions over the last 18 years. One of my favourites being, our trek down to "The Hill". Every year at this time we pack up our van and head down to Palmyra N.Y, where it all began.....We love renting a cabin and cooking over the fire,like days gone by. We enjoy spending time with family and friends, swimming,searching for frogs,climbing the obstacle coarse, paddling in the paddle boats and quiet evenings roasting s'mores around the fire.
Though the true purpose of our trip is to watch North America's largest outdoor pageant/play. It is spectacular! We get to the 'Hill' about 3 hours before it begins to find the perfect spot for our family - mid way - Why you ask? We like leaving room ahead of us for first timers and room behind us for the excitement of the crowd.
We leave some blankets and sweaters on our chairs to reserve our seats then walk among the saints....I remember being a young child and walking in these same crowds and wishing I could freeze everyone....so I could go around to each individual and meet them. I love the feeling that comes when you see so many people that have your same beliefs and understanding of the plan!
The next morning, we quietly head off to the sacred grove. A reverent and peaceful walk through a wooded area. A place for reflection and council. One of my favourite places on Earth.

Dreams do come true!

2009-07-07T08:43:00.001-07:00

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Maddie is here...

2009-06-01T06:34:00.000-07:00

Becky and Adam always say they don't like being late for things....well Maddie is definetly following in that tradition....2 weeks early! We had the privledge of visiting for a little while on Saturday...She is beautiful! -Really Beautiful she is the perfect combination of the two boys (only female) They have just moved into a new home, which I know they will just love. It is very roomy and has such big, bright windows, They are busy painting the walls and making it a home of their own! - typical the first 2 babies make the family the third joins the family and what ever activities are already planned!
I am so grateful for the opportunity to go up for a few days and help out this week.
We are excited to watch this sweet baby grow and develop, she has been blessed to be born to wonderful,loving parents who will nurture and love her; teaching her the principles of the Gospel and reminding her daily, who she is and how to return home again one day!
I love this sweet little family and the joy they bring to the lives of those around them!
Good luck Becky and Adam - enjoy this sweet little one!

All things Donair: Halifax Donair Sauce, Donair Meat, Donair Subs, Donair Pizza Recipes (And Garlic Fingers?)

2009-05-14T16:06:00.000-07:00

All things Donair: Halifax Donair Sauce, Donair Meat, Donair Subs, Donair Pizza Recipes (And Garlic Fingers?)

My Birthday was AMAZING! I thought it was going to be a pretty quiet day. My visiting teachers were scheduled to come over and I thought I would go out and buy some spices to fill up my storage.
Well the boys were just heading back to school after lunch and the front door bell rings.....I open the door assuming it is Joey, the boy next door come to pick up the boys, when it finally registers it is a mob of some of my favourite people.... I wish you could understand what that feels like, to see those loving faces! They had brought over lunch (all of my favourites- donairs,mango,and other delicious, tasty treats including the most scrumptious homemade icecream cake)
Tasha had sent out an email inviting everyone... the theme was 'the garden' they each brought over something for my garden...and my front garage doors were covered in colourful, paper butterflies ...I wonder what my neighbous think!
I hope those involved fully understand the beautiful gift they gave that bright and sunny afternoon. for when they left I knelt in prayer thanking my Father in Heaven for such grecious friends and the beautiful gift of service they rendered that day.

Easter....

2009-04-13T07:21:00.000-07:00

It was so nice to attend church yesterday with our family....we took up a whole row plus a little of the row in front of us! Have I mentioned I love being from a big family....It took me a while at first to get used to it! (like 4 years) I am from a family that is quiet and unassuming....there were 5 of us total...to become a member of a family so large and outgoing took a little adjusting....

Here are a few shots of 'the hunt'....

But as you can see the family is only getting bigger and bigger...

The older I get the more I realize how important family is....The world was created and set up for families...whether big or small....So I am grateful for my crazy family and all the JOY they bring to me!

2 angels for a weekend....

2009-04-09T07:49:00.000-07:00

We had the wonderful opportunity to watch 2 of our friend's children while they were away in Salt Lake for Conference

It was such a joy to have little ones in our home again....it really does change the spirit in a home when young babies are dwelling there! I was able to create one of those parental pictures ( you know the ones you keep for eternity) We were all sitting around in the family room with the sun streaming in the windows everyone happy and Aaron turns to me and says "can we adopt them"...it took us awhile to explain to him the difference between adoption and stealing...(which he was quite willing to do)after the discussion Emma quietly said, "mom, this IS the perfect family" I told her it would have to be her 'perfect' family because ours was completed with Aaron!
I loved how our family all worked together to fulfill the needs of these two special children...It helped me appreciate a little bit more how amazing our children are....jumping in and showing love to others...not once did anyone think it was an inconvience or chore to share a bedroom or help mommy with this or that...I am grateful for this wonderful opportunity it will be a favoured memory of this little family xoxoxo

Some pictures of them 'helping' out with chores around the house
(Nathan is helping wash dishes after making cookies & Clara is helping us fold the laundry)

Now you can see why we enjoyed these two sweet angels for the weekend....

Conference Weekend

2009-04-09T07:15:00.000-07:00

Our family looks foward to Conference... we plan favorite meals, create fun booklets for the younger children, purchase special journals for our older children and this year with the encouragement and wisdom of an older brother we all wrote down questions that we felt we needed counsil for .....

This year was a little different..Traditionally we find ourselves at the church for each conference, but this year the chapel is under consruction so we found ourselves visiting with the Reeves(a very special family)As we all gathered around the screen (Dave hooked up his laptop to the flatscreen for better viewing) I found myself marvelling at the subjects of talks and how well the Lord knows us and our concerns...My first 3 questions were answered in the first 2 talks!
I am grateful for the opportunity to sit at the feet of such loving leaders and the inspired counsil they have to send us peace and understanding....now all we have to do is sit in family counsil and impliment this plan in our own lives!
.....filling our lamps with oil...one drop at a time....

March Break.....

2009-04-09T06:53:00.000-07:00

It all started with an amazing family returning for a short trip back home to London...

Jared,Aaron and ('their long lost friend') Alex had 2 great days together....
Bonfires (roasting marshmallows) building a blanket fort to sleep in; and of course having a picnic at Springbank park! We truly miss this amazing family and feel it a privilege to have known them

This was around the same time that my sister, Kellie came up with her girls for a visit and to see the twins... we had a fun time playing and found some great deals on curtains for her new home

If ye have Faith....Moroni 10:23

2009-04-01T13:24:00.000-07:00

I want to share with you a wonderful experience that happened to me today (April 1st 2009) I recieved a phone call at around 5:45am (not long after I had fallen asleep) "It's time!" was all I heard... before my mind could register, I found myself driving in the van...a whole 200 steps from our driveway to my desired destination; first oops...second was when I went barrelling up their stairs... in my P.J's - ("obviously no one else got the memo it is a pajama party"...was all the excuse I could render with such lack of sleep) Before long Grandma Reeve arrived and we were off on our adventure... And what an adventure it was! I am not sure I will ever have the opportunity to be part of such a sacred event again (but I secretly hope Emma and my future daughter in laws invite me as well) Tasha and Dave were amazing....really AMAZING! they worked beautifully together. Tasha would say something with her eyes and Dave knew exactly what she needed... I guess by the time you get to 4, you are a well oiled machine. We arrived at the hospital at 7:15am and the baby was in the midwive's arms at 8:28am. It was so fast I was about to tell Tasha, "you are crowning" ... but had to quickly change it to "your baby is here!"....she really was there...right in front of me..I could berely see her through my tears.....I just kept saying over and over "Tasha you are amazing, you are amazing...you did it!..she is so beautiful" These words will never fully describe that moment in my life....and how I will forever love this family....

nothing 'sweeter' then the sugar bush

2009-03-27T09:13:00.000-07:00

There is nothing sweeter then the tradition of wrapping up warm on a frosty March day and heading off to the sugar bush with great friends....and what a beautiful day it was!

Avery & Riley have finally arrived!

2009-03-08T18:23:00.000-07:00

I can not believe it! they have finally arrived.....It was everything I had dreamt it would be.

Jo and Mark are on cloud nine and the rest of the family is not far behind; These two sweet little spirits have touched Mark's heart the way I knew they would.( He left for an hour to take a shower at home and said he could not stand being away - the sign of a man that is truly in love)

Jo, who has quickly and naturally grasped her role as 'mother of twins'is amazing, so relaxed and confident in handling and caring for these precious bundles.

My favourite story is the one Mark tells, Avery was not settling well after being fed and Riley held her hand and she calmed instantly. (don't tell me they do not come down to Earth with their own little personalities.....) They are already best friends!
I will be forever grateful to them for being a part of this wonderful experience
Good Luck with your new little family Mark & Jo, you will do GREAT! xoxoxo

Celebrating Faith

2009-03-08T17:38:00.001-07:00

We had a wonderful shower last night for our dear friend Tasha.

Cassandra, Alexis and I had a blast planning and preparing for this celebration! The theme was 'Laundry' as Tasha has been so concerned about getting her baby clothes washed and put away...
I don't think she was surprised by the actual shower but definitely touched by all the love shown to her by those attending!(So many beautiful gifts!)
Tasha is one of these amazing women, you hope to be when you grow up - always making a meal for someone or trying to figure out how to 'make it better' Yesterday was her due date, she tends to go late so we decided to celebrate with a party...I think it worked....I am grateful for good friends, great examples and beautiful little reasons to celebrate!
.......... anxiously awaiting your arrival....Baby Faith

Establishing a house of...

2009-03-02T10:46:00.000-08:00

This year we have been inspired to use this scripture as our theme in Relief Society! All of our Enrichment activities and meetings revolve around ESTABLISHING a house of....
Each month we concentrate on one of the principles described in this scripture... January = Prayer, February = Fasting etc.... What a wonderful opportunity this will give the women of our church to focus back on the basics, to fill there 'lamps' with 'oil' and ready themselves and their families for the coming of the' bridegroom'

It also happens to be our families Power Scripture (a scripture we chose -as a family- to help us remember what is important to our family) I am in the process of ordering a large vinyl for our wall in our family room.
I truly believe if we can 'Establish' our homes; when the trials and tribulations come in our lives we will be prepared and our homes will be safe havens for our children,our families and our friends

The McLaren's are going pink

2009-01-13T12:43:00.000-08:00

I am happy to announce another little girl coming to the Puddicombe family! three in one year ...now that is a record! Rebecca and Adam are expecting baby madelyn in the late spring...149 days and counting! I was so sure it was a girl I bought matching outfits for Maddie (is it pretentious to nick name her already) and the boyz for this summer! TOO CUTE! I am so excited for Adam, I think every daddy should have a little girl! (little girls think there dads can do no wrong) I know Rebecca will have so much fun....little girls are a whole new adventure.... someone to play house with and to dress up...(maybe the tradition will continue and Emma will take Maddie out shopping) I just can't believe how time flies; just yesterday beck was Em's age, and Em was Maddies age!
Anyway I am booking off the week after she arrives so I can give Beckers a little rest & a good start! Besides it will give me a chance to spend some time with Tim bit and Spencer (who I absolutely adore)
This is a fun stage of life for me, watching my younger sisters go through these stages of life I have completed and celebrate with them the adventures they are about to take....Family truly is priceless!

Small and simple things

2008-12-11T08:16:00.000-08:00

Through small and simple things ...great gifts come to pass..
The sisters in our area were able to participate in a night of the small and simple. It all started with some wonderful comforting homemade soups and buns...the sisters were able to relax in a christmas scene setting (thanks to a wonderful husband who was willing to decorate for me) After dinner we were able to assemble at different stations to create....

"The desire to create is one of the deepest yearnings of the human soul. No matter our talents, education, backgrounds, or abilities, we each have an inherent wish to create something that did not exist before.

Everyone can create. You don’t need money, position, or influence in order to create something of substance or beauty.

Creation brings deep satisfaction and fulfillment. We develop ourselves and others when we take unorganized matter into our hands and mold it into something of beauty—and I am not talking about the process of cleaning the rooms of your teenage children.

You might say, “I’m not the creative type. When I sing, I’m always half a tone above or below the note. I cannot draw a line without a ruler. And the only practical use for my homemade bread is as a paperweight or as a doorstop.”

If that is how you feel, think again, and remember that you are spirit daughters of the most creative Being in the universe. Isn’t it remarkable to think that your very spirits are fashioned by an endlessly creative and eternally compassionate God? Think about it—your spirit body is a masterpiece, created with a beauty, function, and capacity beyond imagination.

If you still feel incapable of creating, start small." Pres.D.F. Uchtdorf
So this is how we started..small.....each craft could be completed in 5-10 mins.there was not a great deal of talent needed,but we sure had a lot of fun!
My 'payoff' was watching these sisters, young and old sitting together, encouraging each other, getting to know each other....we left with renewed friendships and a few...small and simple crafts.....

Spirit of Christmas...are we remembering to drop the last syllable?

2008-12-10T19:04:00.000-08:00

"The spirit of Christmas illuminates the picture window of the soul, and we look out upon the world’s busy life and become more interested in people than things. To catch the real meaning of the 'spirit of Christmas,' we need only drop the last syllable, and it becomes the 'Spirit of Christ' " (Thomas S. Monson)
I am so grateful for this time of year, it seems to awaken in all of us a reminder of who we really are and our connection with each other!
THE GOSPEL ACCORDING TO ST. LUKE CHAPTER 2
1 And it came to pass in those days, that there went out a decree from Caesar Augustus, that all the world should be taxed.
2 (And this taxing was first made when Cyrenius was governor of Syria.)
3 And all went to be taxed, every one into his own city.
4 And Joseph also went up from Galilee, out of the city of Nazareth, into Judaea, unto the city of David, which is called Bethlehem; (because he was of the house and lineage of David:)
5 To be taxed with Mary his aespoused wife, being great with child.
6 And so it was, that, while they were there, the days were accomplished that she should be delivered.
7 And she brought forth her firstborn son, and wrapped him in swaddling clothes, and laid him in a manger; because there was no room for them in the inn.
8 And there were in the same country shepherds abiding in the field, keeping watch over their flock by night.
9 And, lo, the angel of the Lord came upon them, and the glory of the Lord shone round about them: and they were sore afraid.
10 And the angel said unto them, Fear not: for, behold, I bring you good tidings of great joy, which shall be to all people.
11 For unto you is born this day in the city of David a Saviour, which is Christ the Lord.
12 And this shall be a sign unto you; Ye shall find the babe wrapped in swaddling clothes, lying in a manger.
13 And suddenly there was with the angel a multitude of the heavenly host praising God, and saying,
14 Glory to God in the highest, and on earth peace, good will toward men.

Good will toward men.....2009 years after this miraculous night and still somewhere deep inside of us this season envokes us to have good will to all men! What a beautiful blessing to share with us!

Christmas.....a new tradition has begun....

2008-12-02T06:47:00.000-08:00

Christmas is going to be a little different this year....We feel a great need to get our 'House in order' ....Don't get me wrong we still have all intentions of celebrating the birth of our Saviour ....just focus on Him more then our 'wants'! Christmas has always been a time of sharing in the Puddicombe family...And this year we have all agreed that spending time together is more important then the gifts sitting under the tree. We are heading off to the Great Wolf Lodge...to create memories that can not break, be thrown out or returned! We got a great deal and the date has been set...this friday we will be piling into the van and heading off on our memory making adventure.

We will post pictures when we return.....Merry Christmas to all and to all a good night....

The Ultimate mother/daughter......date!

2008-11-13T04:10:00.001-08:00

Oh what a wonderful, wonderful world we live in......There are so many beauties on this Earth.
Emma , my mom and I went on the ultimate mother daughter date....18 days of travel, we laughed, we ate, (...we ate so much I haven't been able to eat since Spain!)we explored, we met old friends and made new ones.... Oh the memories we created!
We arrived in the South of England,enjoyed walking on the sea shore (searching for the perfect shell to bring home for Ian!)Visited with family and generally relaxed from the busy schedule of regular life. From there we took the train to Birmingham to see my wonderfully,amazing grandfather! He can bring a smile to any one's face!
We sat and listened to all the old stories about the war and how he was a rascal as a youth and how he meet nan. (It was so sad, you could see the loneliness in his eyes)He spoke about all the 'adventures' they had been on, how he loved her and tried his best to care for her! -I hope Ian and I have many, many more years on this Earth together!- We met my Amazing aunt Judith (who has been lost to our family for decades because of the war) finally returned to us(I secretly think by my nan who had been looking for Judith for ever)- ask me sometime and I will tell you all about this amazing story! We had so much fun together...I didn't want to leave..though I am looking forward to them visiting Canada!(hint, hint)
We flew into Madrid then rented a car and explored Spain....What a breath taking part of the world this is! Oh and if I come up and give you a hug and kiss both sides of your face I am NOT being fresh! I actually got quite used to it! We experienced fine dining,the old world charm...not to mention being allowed to drive Very fast on the highways!...We stayed in Se villa, a charming old city with lots of history and life...talk about a city that never sleeps! REALLY...never! We drove down to the south of Spain and ventured over to Gibraltar....I was really missing the 'boys' by this time....They would have loved the caves, the apes and the village built right inside the mountain (I actually thought I felt Ian tag me and say, "your it!")It would have been an awesome place to play sardines! After a lot of eating, exploring and shopping we ventured back to jolly old England where the temperature plummeted and the rain came down! We enjoyed a day in London being 'tourist' and watched the parades celebrating remembrance day...they really know how to honour there lost! Went to the palace to visit the queen...Emma was convinced she would come out and wave if only we stayed long enough....maybe in the next life! We ventured back to the train but not before I picked up a famous Cornish pastie for Ian(his favourite treat)....All in all it was a whirlwind trip full of great memories and adventure for 3 Canadian girls out on a date!......

Happy Birthday Ian! we love you......

2008-10-15T11:27:00.000-07:00

teach me to walk in the light of HIS love.......

2008-10-14T20:23:00.000-07:00

I can not believe how quickly time is flying by...really I blinked and a year past, It must be a sign of 'old age!'
Another successful Thanksgiving day walk with family xoxo my favorite time of year!...I wonder what the next 12 months have in store!?

Leadership

2008-09-23T12:23:00.000-07:00

Leadership has become tradition in our family....Ian and I both went when we were youth (not to mention for 3 years as leaders) and this year we were able to take our sweet daughter!
leadership is a 4 day 'getaway from the world.' L.D.S Youth from all over Southern Ontario get together at Erindale (The University of Toronto) To 'remember who they really are' The dress code is Sunday dress 90% of the time,the groups (twigs/ branches) spend their days going to workshop after workshoplearning everything from improving communication to learning better Scripture study habits.
In the evenings there is usually a dance or variety night (skits).
If you have not been it is extremely hard to describe. In fact our Emma was a little apprehensive to go.."I am quite capable of opening doors for myself".The idea of being escorted everywhere by a different young man, wasn't her idea of fun.... but just like so many other first year youth, by the second day it was old hat to her..in fact her comment to me was "... mom, I think I am going to have to ask Jon to escort me everywhere when I get back home,a girl can get used to this!"
I watched as her countenance changed, as she discovered for herself, who she really is. It was a beautiful experience ....we can't wait for Jon to join us next year!

Twins!

2008-09-23T11:55:00.000-07:00

I didn't know how excited I could actually get, until I was told by my brother and sister in laws "We are having TWINS!" Can you believe it? Talk about a blessing. Not one, but two more Puddicombes. I can not wait to hold them and smell them and cuddle them and..... yes even change their stinky diapers.
We knew they were pregnant. In fact the prayers in our home went something like this (Jared or Aaron's prayer) " ....and please bless Auntie Jo and the baby, that they will be safe and grow strong..oh and make sure it is a boy!" with Emma whispering "a girl" ....So now Aaron thinks it was because of their prayers "both were answered" - He will be mighty disappointed if this turns out to be 2 girls!
I am so excited that they live in London. I can't wait to see Mark hold his little ones for the first time and witness the transformation that takes place inside someone when they melt...I mean truely melt. I was able to see it happen to my husband 4 times and each of my brothers /in laws.
It really does amazes me the different feelings I have about babies now that our little family is complete! Some how I feel old, not 'OH I am SO old!" just 'Wow I loved that stage,but now I'm done, and entering a new stage!' I really enjoy watching my siblings as they journey through this wonderous stage of being 100% selfless on someone elses behalf. I think the love for ones spouse grows 100 fold when you rear a child together. One focus, One plan, One journey.....All the best Jo and Mark...let the games begin!

A forever friend.........

2008-08-07T17:03:00.000-07:00

I had the opportunity while I was in AZ. to visit with a dear old friend of mine.
Mysha Maxwell and I have been friends since we were 9/10. The moment we met we became instant friends. We did all the usual girlfriend things...sleep overs, swimming, movies,sharing with each other our wishes and dreams.... That was an amazing thing about Mysha....I could just be me! I didn't have to wear designer clothing, know the latest band or what song they just released, I know she wasn't after my 'HOT' big brothers (trust me, that happened more then I wish to recall!) She lived the same standards I lived, treated others with respect and because she never gossiped about others, I felt safe she was not speaking unkindly about me either.
Mysha and I would love taking care of her 2 little sisters and the Ward girls, they were the same age 1&3 (they were very special to me, in fact I named my daughter after them) We would take them to the parks, go for walks,read them stories you know the usual sitter stuff.
Mysha's family quickly became my own. I called her parents 'mom and dad',loved participating in family traditions (like crowding onto her parents water bed to watch movies)made many a breakfast in bed....I am sure some were even edible...(we even cleaned up after ourselves) 'Mom' would spend time brushing out our long hair and French braiding them (Mysha with 2 braids, mine with 1 & vise versa) It always made me feel like a dutch princess!
Well this week I was able to spend a few days with this VERY special family...I am sure I tasted a little piece of heaven....

Little Linnea.....(otherwize known as mini me)

2008-08-03T14:44:00.001-07:00

I would like to formally introduce Linnea May Kelly - born 7lb 5oz 21 inches long....beautiful blue eyes and dark hair

Linnea came to the earth on Monday, July 28th at 8:40pm to her wonderful,excited and loving parents.....Stephanie and David Kelly...What great parents they are, the way they work so well together to tend to her needs. It is so amazing to see my brother with a sweet baby in his arms...I'm sure it seems like an eternity before she arrived, but now she is here I warn him "time will seem to fly by, and before you know it she will be a beautiful young women having to ward off all the young men!"
Linnea is sweet tempered and ready to brighten up anyone's day with the smile in her eyes .... She has a beautiful spirit....We have been praying for you for a long time and now you are finally here! Welcome, Welcome we pray for your growth and development. all our love- Your ever growing family xoxoxo

a night at the INN....

2008-07-12T17:48:00.000-07:00

The beauty of a weekend away.....
We had an amazing time celebrating our 16th year Anniversary together. Ian and our friend Dave found this romantic little village that has been turned into an inn, pool area and a 4 star restaurant, etc... the beautiful little village of 'Benmiller' was a delight to stay at and we would highly recommend it to anyone!
We ate wonderful meals, swam in the pool and relaxed in the jacuzzi.
We also discovered this quaint little town named Goderich, where we purchased fun gifts at the town's outdoor market and wandered the boutiques looking for treasures to help us remember this momentous weekend.
What a wonderful blessing it is to have such good friends to spend time with,an amazing companion to enjoy the beauties of this Earth with and the freedom to do both!
I am grateful for a ROMANTIC husband who always thinks of such memorable ways to spend time with me.

camping with 72 girls.......

2008-07-02T08:32:00.001-07:00

"WAS IT WORTH IT?" this was the first question I was asked as I dragged my tired body home at around 1pm on Saturday afternoon. Was it worth it? hmmm? I thought....camp started for most on Tuesday... but not for those in charge we had been planning for months...researching,fasting,praying,organizing, purchasing....praying some more! I answered 2 seconds later with a resounding YES!
The young women were amazing, they did all they were asked( most like Nephi)The theme was 'steadfast as the stars' and that they were...we had amazing campfires,amazing positive pranks, amazing spiritual moments, amazing food, amazing youth leaders,amazing adult help! In a word it was AMAZING! I literally had 2 hats to wear... I was the assistant camp director....(administrative)& I was a cabin leader over the 2nd year girls, which was totally rewarding....they are fantastic and truly made all the planning,praying & preparing worth it!
I am excited to start planning for next years camp. These youth have my heart! and I suppose they always will......
Pres. Eyring stated it best when he said... "It is by faith that you can lay hold upon every good thing. I pray with all my heart that your faith will be increased that you are a daughter of a loving God. I testify to you that you have been one of the valiant ones to reach the point where you now are in this journey of life. Just as you are marked as a target by the enemy of righteousness, you have been protected and watched over by your Heavenly Father and the Lord Jesus Christ. They know you. They know all of the forces and individuals around you. They know what is ahead of you. And so They know which of the choices you make, which of the desires you decide to satisfy, and which of the circumstances around you will make the most difference in keeping you walking in the light. I testify that by the Spirit of Christ and by the Holy Ghost, you may walk confidently in whatever difficulties will come. Because you are so valuable, some of your trials may be severe. You need never be discouraged or afraid. The way through difficulties has always been prepared for you, and you will find it if you exercise faith.

You must have faith to pray. You must have faith to ponder the word of God. You must have faith to do those things and go to those places which invite the Spirit of Christ and the Holy Ghost.

I promise you that within the next few days you will feel the illumination of the Spirit of Christ and the Holy Ghost in your everyday life. When you walk in the light, you will feel at that moment some of the warmth and the happiness that will finally be yours when you are welcomed home again with the hundreds and perhaps thousands of others whom you will bring with you, who have walked in the light because you did."

To the Father I always wished for my Children...

2008-06-16T07:55:00.000-07:00

I feel the need to express my love for the Father of my wonderful children...
"President [Howard W.] Hunter said: 'A man who holds the
priesthood regards the family as ordained of God. Your leadership of the
family is your most important and sacred responsibility. The family is the
most important unit in time and in eternity and, as such, transcends every
other interest in life' (Ensign, Nov. 1994, 50)."

Ian is very 'laid back' in many ways (he loves playing a good game of chess) but never in the responsibilities of his family. In fact this is one of the attributes that attracted me to him in the first place ( He is the Eldest of 8, with all this in tales) I love that he dates me every week - the best gift you can give your children is to love their mother! He councils with me regarding my callings,frustration and inspirations, He makes me laugh, helps me cry and encourages me to follow my dreams. He is a hard worker, a great example and a good teacher. (Always taking opportunities to make those teaching moments with the children) I am grateful for such a man in my life....and more grateful that he is mine for ETERNITY! - I love you Ian

My dear husband truly understands this principle, for this I am grateful.

Joyful Life....

2008-06-01T17:38:00.000-07:00

I had the amazing opportunity to attend Time out for women, with what felt like 1000 of my closest friends..... exaggeration? ...let me explain. Imagine an area the size of a football field filled with women who seem to have the same purpose...Coming closer to Christ, by finding the joy in their lives!
I want to share with you some of the highlights that profoundly influenced me. The first person I see as I walk through the conference doors is my mother in laws...oh I wish I could express to you the feeling I get when she is around. She is truly my champion. She is a kindred spirit of mine, she makes me laugh, she makes me cry and she keeps me awake till the wee hours of the morning...because she wants to be with me! who could ask for a better friend?
Speaking of friends I was able to see a 'lifetime' of friends this weekend,friends from primary,friends from high school, friends from young adults,young marrieds,from Brampton, from Toronto,from Nova Scotia....and you guessed it from LONDON!...oh what a blast we had!
The speakers and music were inspiring, I learned new ideas and relearned some old ones,reconnecting with my spirit and understanding my purpose in this world a little more clearly. It was a perfectly balanced weekend of spiritual, emotional and physical (laughter is a great workout) We stayed up to late, as only girlfriends can discussing everything...and I mean everything, we ate to much , laughed to much, slept to little and had this sad knowledge that this weekend was going to eventually end!
Some goals I have recognized because of the influence of the Spirit and some great friends... I have recently been 'complaining' that I do not have enough in my callings to keep me busy in my life ...not anymore... I have been able to refocus my view. For so many years my focus in the church has been with the youth (this is where my heart is) After this inspiring weekend I am able to understand more the depth of my calling, I am excited and thrilled to be serving in the Relief Society presidency. With my new 'understanding' of what this calling entails I will be very busy!
I am grateful for a more Joyful life, for good friends,& for beautiful experiences!

Young Women's Camp

2008-05-21T06:32:00.000-07:00

YOUNG WOMEN'S CAMP

I am so excited to be a part of Young Women's camp this year! Our theme is being 'Steadfast as the Stars' Mosiah 5:15
What an inspired program. A place for the girls to remember who they really are, rediscovering their purpose on this Earth and finding the peace that comes from this knowledge,(mixed in with some good clean fun!)What more would you want in a camping trip?

The 'Nature' of our home....

2008-05-05T08:01:00.000-07:00

Ian and I have the opportunity on Sunday evenings to watch 1 T.V. show with our Children. We gather in the 'family' room (the room our family designed,built and decorated together)to watch Extreme Makeover If you have never had the chance to view this show, we would encourage you to do so! You will need a blanket to snuggle up (big enough for everyone)and a box of tissues.
This week, while we were waiting for the program to begin we had some time to discuss the robin's nest that was built on our half moon window. I spoke to the children of how hard the daddy robin worked to find a safe place and make the nest strong,firm and comfortable for the mama robin. Then we discussed how the mama sat on that nest and laid 4 beautiful eggs (one at a time.) Each day the mama would sit and warm those eggs, in the heat of the sun and the wet of the rain she sat, the daddy sitting on the fence not far off calling out once in awhile a warning. We spoke of how excited we were when we witnessed the first egg cracking then the second, third and finally the forth....all had survived and there little family was complete. I shared with the children this is how our family is....Their daddy works so very hard to make them a home that is strong,safe and comfortable. Mommy works hard to nurture and teach them and together we will all 'survive!'

Is Life Fair?

2008-05-04T14:36:00.000-07:00

We had a very interesting discussion today in Relief Society regarding life's fairness...Is life fair? Bad things happen to everyone,some experiences the Lord 'gives' us, some we choose ourselves and some, probably the most difficult to deal with is when someone else effects us through their agency.
This is where the discussion got interesting. How do we handle this unfairness? We all have the amazing and undeniably wonderful experience of using the Atonement. I have gone through my own difficult experiences on many occasions while here on this Earth, some as a young child, some as a teen, and many as an adult. They have all been different and very difficult experiences, the only thread that is similar is they have all helped me (through the atonement)become the women I am today! I would not have been able to successfully journey through any of them without the knowledge and love I have of my Heavenly Father and His love for me! Do I think it is fair that my child gets picked on sometimes....No! does that make me go to the individual who is bullying my child and rip them up one side and down the other.No! does it make me grateful that my child is having an opportunity to grow and develop their relationship with the Saviour? ABSOLUTELY! I may not enjoy witnessing my child experience these cruel things, but I am very grateful they are 'learning' from them.
I am grateful for the Atonement and the knowledge we have that our Brother knows these pains. We are not alone! There is a plan, the peace these words give me help me through these 'unfair' times in my life....so much so that 'Fair' is neither here nor there!

Today.....

2008-05-03T14:26:00.000-07:00

Outside my Window… The robin is sitting on her nest of eggs

I am thinking…about how Grateful I am that I do not have to teach Relief Society tomorrow

I am thankful for…my eternal companion who makes me smile

From the kitchen…Emma is cooking tonight....smells like homemade cottage pie

I am going…crazy thinking about how to decorate for a wedding on Saturday when all the wedding stuff is 2 hours away in T.O (roadtrip..)

I am reading…No Doubt about it for book club this month

I am hoping…Ian has a wonderful week....first week of reg. maintenance with new employees

I am hearing…Emma singing in the kitchen

Around the house…It is actually quiet...Jon is finishing off his homework, Aaron is playing a game, Jared is down at Joe's and Em is busy with dinner

One of my favorite things right now.... is to walk through the garden and see what wonderful new life is peeking out of the soil

A Few Plans For The Rest Of The Week… make strawberry cheesecake,attend a new member baptism,have a family over for Sunday supper,go teaching with the sister missionaries, watch my friends children on 2 days, host Brunch Bunch, try to get hold of the bride to ask for theme, colours etc; go to the art museum with Aaron, get the lesson ready for next Sunday,plan for the long weekend at the cottage...I know I am forgetting something, where is my Franklin..........

(I saw this idea on Yvonne's blog)too cute!

reflecting on some recent experiences...

2008-04-28T10:14:00.000-07:00

I love being a mom! I can not think of anything I would rather do then care for, nurture and love my little family...Let me give you a little taste.... The other night for family home evening (the topic being 'friends') our children each invited over a non member friend from the neighbourhood. We sat around the fire pit and read a short story of a town where people only gave out cold prickles(unkindness) everyone avoided this town, until one day a man came with a bag of warm fuzzies(kindness)and started passing them out to everyone...the children asked him where he got such strange things. The mayor gave him the biggest prickly they had ever seen, the man dropped the prickly and gave the mayor a large, warm fuzzy...the townspeople were each given bags of warm fuzzies to hand out. The town became a place where many others wanted to visit. We sat and discussed what this story was telling us. All the children were sharing fantastic ideas of how we can share warm fuzzies with others even if they are handing out cold prickles! We then played the game where you stand and hold 2 different peoples hands then everyone has to work together(without letting go) to make a circle...we had so much fun! then of course roasted warm fuzzies (s mores and hotdogs) over the fire and jumped on the trampoline.

Each of our family home evenings right now are focused on 'the strength for youth' pamphlet- so we decided to give a copy to each of our children's friends. We had them write their names in it so that they would take ownership of the books.
The next day (Tues.) after school I notice Aaron playing outside with Jared's friend; suddenly he comes in ,runs upstairs and hands me his 'extra' Book of Mormon (the one his primary teacher has given him)and asks me if Jared's friend can have it? I gave him permission but questioned how this idea came to him. Aaron explains to me Corban (Jared's friend) has read the whole strength for youth pamphlet said his prayers and wants more to read....he proceeds to go back outside where they lay down on the trampoline and Corban reads to Aaron ( Aaron helps explain who Nephi is)....
It is truly wonderful to be a mother.....

Last night we had the Hills and Tasha over for dinner...after we ate, we sat and talked in the living room while the children played.When all of a sudden the children come down stairs dressed and ready to perform a 'play'. Jared has his Book of Mormon ready to read....the play is about how Lehi and his family are leaving Jerusalem towards the promised land....it was wonderful to listen to our children's rendition of this story ....surprisingly very well performed! I only wish I had recorded it...another wonderful parental moment.
I am grateful for such beautiful children in my life and such an amazing husband to share them with xoxoxo

OH What A Weekend!

2008-04-27T18:10:00.000-07:00

I just participated in one of those 'forever memory' weekends, you know the ones that you will still be talking about when you're 90!
It all started Friday morning when my dear friend Tasha and I set up for Stake women's day....tables,decor etc...even mundane things are fun with Tash...Then we headed off to book club it was being held at Sister Salt's home (my children have adopted this family as their own) We had the opportunity to discuss the March edition of the Ensign, It truly was a wonderful, intimate evening of sharing our feelings in regards to our relationship with the Saviour. We had all brought items to share (IE.treats,bookmarks,F.H.E kits,cute candles,dvd's)then created these fun baskets to give to neighbours,teachers and friends with a copy of the Ensign. I loved listening to these beautiful sisters bear their testimony,share their concerns, fill the room with laughter,shed tears and counsel with one another.
We didn't end until 11pm then proceeded to drive over to Kelly's home for a sleepover...YES you heard me a sleepover....We made amazing salads for the women's conference until about 1am (my favorite memory was watching these women work together,laughing,talking and just generally having a silly time.) A few of the girls had to leave at this time...after wishing them a safe ride, the rest of us slipped into our bathing suits and jumped into the hot tub. It was a beautiful night, we sat around and....you guessed it, talked, and laughed.
After drying off and wrapping up in our p.j's and blankets we spent the next few hours discussing how blessed we are to be surrounded by such wonderful women, until finally(4am) we drifted off in a peaceful sleep...
We had to rise early to prepare for the conference, Kelly made us delicious smoothies then we found our way to the Stake centre ...yes on time!
Another amazing day of counsel from our priesthood leaders, lunch went surprisingly well ...(just the right number of subs, sandwiches and salads)
No rest for the weary, my mom had us drive out to this fantastic country market to purchase fresh fruit and veggies (great deals).I was home with enough time to put the food away,give the kids and Ian a quick cuddle and off to a baby shower, after the baby shower Tasha and I stayed up talking to Dave about what an amazing adventure we had....
Though the adventure was not over, todays sacrament meeting was memorable as it was Jon's first real sacrament talk, he spoke about the priesthood and the importance of the fast offering. He did a great job!
The Relief Society lesson was about my favorite Con talk from last Oct....

Women who know

by Sister Julie Beck.( a talk that is dedicated to 'doing less',) How ironic.... though I must explain to you this was a unique and wonderful weekend....from a women who knows! It probably will never be duplicated, maybe that is one of the reasons it is so memorable.
The icing on the cake was a relaxing dinner on Sunday evening with the Hill family, I owed them ...after betting they were having a boy...(I know there is a reason why Mormons don't bet) ...We celebrated the announcement of (I'm positive,)a beautiful baby girl with a dinner,some delicious carrot cake and a basket of 'girly' outfits and treats for the expectant mom.... I couldn't think of a nicer way to finish off the 'perfect girls only weekend!'.......

*note any spelling mistakes or grammatical errors due to total exhausion!

Inspiring Friends

2008-04-05T06:56:00.000-07:00

I am so grateful for friends who inspire me to do better, be better, try more and to think positively.... look at this example from a few of my girlfriends; Tasha...."I just finished my Conference Packets for the kids. Click on the link on the sidebar of our Home Page. Or you can get it on Sugardoodle.net." you really need to check out her blog, She has encouraged her family to take on the 21 days closer to Christ challenge, which they WILL successfully complete!
Then of course there is Cassandra, who I wish I would have known when I was a young mom, she has my little family plus one more... she is so amazing with these kids! ( note - they are great kids ) She is always taking time for 'teaching moments' with them. She gets right down to their level, looks them in the eye and quietly lets them know whatever council they need in that moment.
Cheryl, who is quiet, yet strong in her convictions, she and her husband are a major reason why we moved to London! We were living in Brampton about 10 years ago,praying for a change, friends that would inspire and uplift our little family....& who moves into town on a whime? The Davies, We thought they were a little strange, they would just pop by, no expectations....no judgment,just fun,good, clean, uplifting fun! They were an answer to our prayers and we knew it! They have continued to be dear, supportive and uplifting friends...and a constant reminder that the Lord is aware of us!
Amiee, who is one of these women, the more you get to know her, the more unbelievable she is...Her desire to show others love is inspiring...
I even find the 'newest' of my friends inspiring, Kelly who is a new move in to our area, encourages me to strive a little more in everything I do. Through her example and strong testimony of the gospel ,she teaches others the importance of 'enduring happily',and trusting in Heavenly Father's plan for you!
The most amazing thing about these wonderful women, is their equally amazing husbands! All these men hold their priesthood responsibility dear to their hearts. You can tell through their actions....My daughter Emma once noticed this," men in the church are different then men in the world.... they treat me differently." For this I am grateful!
I have many other inspiring friends and women I associate with who all help me to become a better me, I will forever be indebted to these women for helping me,encouraging me and showing me the way.....

We are rededicating ourselves to these programs

2008-04-02T12:39:00.000-07:00

Personal Progress
“I love the name of Personal Progress because it’s exactly what it says it is,” Sister Tanner says. “Heavenly Father’s plan is for each of us to progress throughout our lives.”

Like Primary’s Faith in God program, Personal Progress is a way to “develop a closeness to Father in Heaven. You can practice keeping commitments and learn to keep covenants,” Sister Tanner says. But Personal Progress is different from Faith in God because the goals are listed by seven categories—the seven values.

Sister Dalton points out, “As you work on Personal Progress you’ll use your scriptures, and they’ll help you feel the Spirit.” You’ll begin to better understand the scriptures, your own great worth, and your baptismal covenants. Then you’ll be prepared to make temple covenants.

“That’s why the Personal Progress book has a temple on the cover,” Sister Tanner says. “It reminds you that Personal Progress is a way to prepare.”

Parents and youth leaders now have several newly inspired tools to guide young men and women to come unto Christ.

We are their parents and Church leaders. They are the youth of Zion, a royal generation (see 1 Pet. 2:9). They rely on us to teach and lead them in the ways of righteousness. We are anxious that they will be true to the faith and lead their generation in preparing for the Second Coming of Jesus Christ. We can be a powerful team for good in their lives. Several new resources are now available to assist us: Aaronic Priesthood Duty to God, Young Women Personal Progress, the Guidebook for Parents and Leaders of Youth, and For the Strength of Youth.

Aaronic Priesthood Duty to God
“In years to come, as young men advance in the Aaronic Priesthood and are ordained elders,” says Elder M. Russell Ballard of the Quorum of the Twelve Apostles, “I see them coming to their elders quorum president with their Duty to God certificates in hand, saying, ‘I’m ready to serve the Lord.’ ”

“We want to help young men come to Christ,” adds Elder F. Melvin Hammond, Young Men general president. “The main emphasis is to develop their spirituality. It is not simply an activity program. We hope that every young man will come to appreciate the true depth of the priesthood.”

The prophet Alma’s words reinforce the new emphasis: “And now my beloved brethren, I have said these things unto you that I might awaken you to a sense of your duty to God, that ye may walk blameless before him, that ye may walk after the holy order of God” (Alma 7:22).

The Duty to God award requirements have been designed to help young men prepare for the Melchizedek Priesthood, the temple endowment, a full-time mission, marriage, and fatherhood. The new emphasis replaces the Duty to God program the Church has sponsored for almost 50 years and is separate from the On My Honor award.

The priesthood duties consist of such personal spiritual habits as prayer, scripture reading, meeting attendance, tithing payment, and fulfilling basic priesthood responsibilities such as sacrament assignments and home teaching. Living these standards helps young men be worthy of priesthood advancement and temple attendance.

The family activities have been organized to strongly encourage young men to serve in the home and thus prepare for fatherhood. For example, deacons are to prepare two family meals, teachers are to prepare and use a simplified budget, and priests are to submit the name of an ancestor for temple work. “We’ve tried to develop the requirements based on the maturity of the young men,” says Elder Hammond.

Young Women Personal Progress
Elder Ballard has also said: “Young women who earn their Young Womanhood Recognition award will be better prepared to serve in the Relief Society. It will help them prepare for their future roles as a faithful woman, wife, mother, and leader in God’s kingdom.”

Parents and Youth Leaders Working Together
Parental participation in these programs is now being stressed. “If parents will get involved in Duty to God with their sons, it will mean a great deal to their development,” says Elder Hammond.

“We are putting more emphasis on parental involvement,” says Sister Nadauld. “Young Women leaders understand that we’re here to assist parents, to be another voice for truth.”

We as parents can play a crucial role in helping them succeed by:

• Reading and pondering the Guidebook for Parents and Leaders of Youth.

• Obtaining and studying the Aaronic Priesthood Duty to God and Young Women Personal Progress materials.

• Meeting with Aaronic Priesthood or Young Women leaders, when invited, accompanied by our children.

• Working with our children in selecting the goals or value experience and projects they want to accomplish.

• Encouraging our children ages 14–18 to enroll in seminary.

• Holding regular discussions with each of our children.

• Showing love, trust, and confidence in them.

• Offering help and encouragement by asking about their goals.

• Acknowledging their work by signing our initials in the appropriate places each time a goal is completed.

• Attending events when our children are recognized.

Elder Hales reminds us: “It is important that the youth know who they are—sons and daughters of God. It is important that they know what they are trying to achieve in life—that is, to return back into the presence of their Heavenly Father with their families. Because the youth are so blessed, it is also important that they learn and do their duty to God.”

“You have nothing in this world more precious than your children,” President Gordon B. Hinckley has told us. “When you grow old, when your hair turns white and your body grows weary, when you are prone to sit in a rocker and meditate on the things of your life, nothing will be so important as the question of how your children have turned out.” 2 As parents and youth leaders, we can make a tremendous difference in the lives of our youth. “They are our sons and daughters,” says President Hinckley. “I hope, I pray, I plead that they will continue on the [right] path.”

Elder Robert D. Hales of the Quorum of the Twelve Apostles has said: “I hope parents and leaders will understand that the young men and young women for whom they have responsibility have been prepared to come to earth at this particular time for a sacred and glorious purpose. I hope they will do what they need to do to help the youth accomplish that purpose.”

In our children's lives...History is made

2008-04-01T08:50:00.000-07:00

At 11:00am MST, the Church held a news conference to announce the new members of the First Presidency. As expected, Thomas Spencer Monson, will be the new Prophet, Seer and Revelator and 16th President of the Church of Jesus Christ of Latterday Saints. Not surprising, President Henry Bennion Eyring was named First Counselor and Elder Dieter Friedrich Uchtdorf was named Second Counselor.
Early life

In Wikipedia we read, "...Monson was born in Salt Lake City, Utah, to G. Spencer Monson and Gladys Condie.[3] The second of six children, he grew up in a tight knit family. In fact, many of his mother's relatives lived on the same street and the extended families frequently went on trips together. Monson attended West High School. In the spring of 1945, at age 17, he joined the United States Naval Reserve and anticipated participating in World War II in the Pacific theater. Instead, Germany capitulated within weeks of his joining and the war in Pacific ended within months. His tour of duty lasted only six months after the end of the war and upon its completion, he enrolled in the University of Utah. Monson graduated cum laude in 1948 with a bachelor's degree in business management.
Monson taught for a time at the university, then began his career in publishing. His first job was with the Deseret News, and he became an advertising executive there and later with the Newspaper Agency Corporation. That same year, he met and married Frances Beverly Johnson in the Salt Lake Temple on October 7, 1948. The couple has three children: Thomas Lee, Ann Frances, and Clark Spencer. They have eight grandchildren. Monson later transferred to the Deseret News Press, one of the largest presses in the Western United States, beginning as sales manager and eventually becoming general manager. He continued his education and received his master of business administration degree from Brigham Young University in 1952. In addition to these work and family responsibilities, Monson also became a bishop in the LDS Church at age 22, one of the youngest men ever called to that position. As a bishop in Salt Lake City, he presided over a ward of over 1000 people, including nearly ninety widows. He visited those widows regularly and even after leaving the position, often during the Christmas season bringing them gifts (including poultry he raised himself). At age 27, Monson became a counselor to a stake president in Salt Lake City, and became a mission president at age 32. As mission president, he presided over the Canadian Mission of the LDS Church from 1959 to 1962, supervising LDS missionaries who were not much younger than he was. The Canadian Mission consisted of Ontario and Quebec. It was under the leadership of Monson that missionary work began among the French-speaking population of Quebec. Upon his return to Utah, Monson resumed his work with the Deseret News until he was called to be an apostle in 1963 at age 36, the youngest apostle since 1910. As an apostle, Monson has worked in many areas of the world and in many capacities for the LDS Church. With his business background, he has helped to oversee many operations of the church including KSL and Bonneville International. He was chair of the scripture publication committee in the 1970s that oversaw publication of the LDS Church edition of the King James Bible and revised editions of LDS Church scriptures containing footnotes and guides. He has also overseen the church's printing advisory committee, the missionary executive committee, and the general welfare committee. Monson currently serves as first vice chairman of the Church Board of Education and Board of Trustees that govern the Church Educational System. Monson has also been instrumental in the growth of the LDS Church in Europe, where for a time he oversaw church operations in Eastern Europe. He assisted in gaining LDS Church access to its members in the Soviet bloc. In 1982, he organized the first stake in East Germany. He was instrumental in obtaining permission for the church to build a temple in Freiberg, East Germany, in 1985. Following the death of Church President Spencer W. Kimball in 1985, Monson was chosen as second counselor in the First Presidency by new church president Ezra Taft Benson. At age 58, he was the youngest member of a First Presidency since 1901. Serving in this position under Benson and Howard W. Hunter, he was named first counselor to church president Gordon B. Hinckley in 1995, simultaneously becoming President of the Quorum of the Twelve Apostles by seniority. He served as a counselor in the First Presidency until Hinckley's death on January 27, 2008."
We are grateful for the opportunity to sustain these wonderful leaders this weekend at Confrence.

Family Home Evening

2008-03-31T18:34:00.000-07:00

I just read in the newspaper this morning how we need to cherish our families more.The leading psychologist at some University or another, reported a new study indicating that if the government encouraged parents to set aside an evening a week dedicated solely to family time we would be raising more conscious citizens....
In 1915 President Joseph F. Smith and his counselors in the First Presidency began a Churchwide effort to strengthen the family. They called on parents in the Church to gather their children once each week for a "Home Evening." Families were to take time to pray and sing together, read the scriptures, teach the gospel to one another, and participate in other activities that would build family unity.

In 1970 President Joseph Fielding Smith joined with his counselors in the First Presidency to designate Monday night as the time for family home evening. Since that announcement, the Church has kept Monday evenings free from Church activities so families can have this time together.

Latter-day prophets continue to urge Church members to give highest priority to family home evening. They have promised that our dedication to this program will help protect our families against the evils of our time and will bring us abundant joy now and throughout the eternities.

All members of the Church should make Monday evening a sacred time, reserved for family home evening. Those who are married should have weekly family home evening with their spouse. As couples have children, they should include them in family home evening, adapting the program to their needs and interests and letting them participate. After the children grow up and move away, couples should continue to hold family home evening together. www.lds.org

I am grateful for such inspired programs.

Tonight we had a lesson on Gratitude... it was wonderful, we discussed the 10 lepers (Luke 17:12-19) and how we need to see God's hand in our lives and be more grateful.. We each put a stone in our sock and a sweet candy in our mouths and walked around the room, we discussed how much sweeter the candy would be if we didn't have the stone to distract us. We talked about when we are ungrateful and complain it is like that stone, we cheat ourselves out of the 'sweet' things in life by not fully recognizing them. Then we played this fun game! We broke up into 2 teams (I had put each letter of the alphabet in a cookie jar previous to F.H.E) the gist of the game is whatever letter you pull out, the teams have to write down as many things that they can think of starting with this letter, that they are grateful for i.e/ "k" knowledge etc....if you have the same words as the other team they cancel each other out. The team with the most 'grateful words' left over wins! (well needless to say we had a hoot)
Each of the children received a small box of their favorite hard candy...with the idea that every time they take one out and suck on it, they take the time to think about what they are grateful for!
I am grateful for parents who raised us with Family Home Evenings and for Children who would not let a week go by without participating in our own.

Parental Payoffs.....

2008-03-30T06:57:00.000-07:00

I had the opportunity to attend the Young Women's broadcast last night with Emma.... What a wonderful experience.The Y.W pres. in our ward created a tradition of having a little dessert before the broadcast which is such a brilliant idea...it helps the girls bond with one another..I am so grateful for such inspired women in my daughters life!

The broadcast had a beautiful array of music and lessons of remembering who we are as daughters of a loving Father. With that knowledge comes the responsibility to STAND tall and immovable in this world. As a mother/ daughter I find such peace in these words...We do know who we are! Though this life can be full of temptations and frustrations, we can hold on to the knowledge and lean on our Saviour for strength. I loved sitting, cuddled up with Em on the pew watching her write frantically the words of these inspired leaders....she really is striving to make a plan and live by it.I am so very grateful for the amazing friends that she has carefully chosen, they lift her up and because they themselves have firm foundations, together they can overcome the stumbling blocks that the adversary puts in front of them!

I know who I am, I will STAND, until I kneel at my Brother's feet and He will say 'Well Done!'

our family get away...was it just a great T.V show

2008-03-23T05:48:00.001-07:00

2008-03-22T15:34:00.001-07:00

....I love looking at these pictures and long for those bright,warm, sunny mornings when I get up and feel motivated to do something...on my rather long list of 'to do's' ....like starting to exercise - losing 10 pounds might be a good start....eating more nutritious foods also might help ...but there is nothing desirable about eating a salad when it is - 11 outside.... I would love to get my hands on the outside of my home...beautify it with a light cleanup....move a few of the machines that got trapped there when the early snow fell...and never left..... I am sooo ready for spring to arrive let the snow melt away and the beautiful blossoms bloom in my garden....I'll even take the dandelions in all there beautiful yellows. I posted the pictures in side the T.V for 2 reasons 1 to symbolize the fact that though this trip was only weeks ago it feels like it was a movie I watched, but didn't actually experience. & 2 because of the miserable weather my children are conducting a mutiny and watching 2 hours or more of screen time ...instead of their usually allotted 1 hour only! let the sun come and warm the Earth before this women goes nuts in this cold and 'ugly' place.....(what happened to the girl that saw the glass half full?) - I think she needs to dethaw!

visiting teachers - the simple pleasures of life!

2008-03-22T07:34:00.000-07:00

I am grateful for the visiting teaching program....( a program set up within our church, where 2 women come to your home once a month to 'friendship' with you. Making sure everyone /thing is going well in your home/family)

I had the opportunity to spend time with my visiting teachers a few days ago...what a wonderful spirit they bring into my home. We were able to discuss the simple pleasures of life..... the fact that there are little patches of grass coming through the piles of endless snowbanks, the smile of a stranger, the way your husband looks at you, the laughter of your children playing together. We discussed the importance of searching out these blessings and recognizing who they are from.... How many times a day I quietly hear myself say 'Thank You' to someone unseen by so many. I am grateful for the simple knowledge I have of the Saviour, grateful that through the Atonement I and my loved ones can endure. Grateful for the peace that I find through my trials, whether financial, physical, mental or emotional, because I know that the Lord has his hand in it. I don't think I can write the words that would express the Love and reverence I feel for My Heavenly Father. Sometimes I feel so far from 'home', then I receive a 'hug' from my father; sometimes through a friend or in the pages of the scriptures sometimes as I kneel in prayer but this week it was from 2 sweet women who walked into my home and left the spirit here for me to 'wrap up' in and fill me up for a little longer......for that I am grateful......

celebrating ...in our own way

2008-03-21T16:30:00.000-07:00

I love traditions.....I feel they are such an important part of a persons upbringing.... I love watching others,as they celebrate with their families the traditions that they have nurtured over the years. I am grateful for good friends and their great example of being strong, faithful & loving parents. I am grateful for our parents, who have instilled in us the traditions of their parents... & for the opportunity we have to create traditions for our own children.
Though sometimes I ponder how Jacob felt when he spoke of traditions to his fellow Nephites in the book of Mormon. How it must have pained him to see their poor examples. It makes me reflect if I, as a parent, am 'stealing' blessings from my children because of some of my 'traditions'. Not the traditions that I spoke of previously, the carefully planned ones, more of the ones that quietly sneak into my life.... not keeping the whole Sabbath day holy....because everyone knows after 8pm it's not the sabbath any more!? or not singing hymns in meetings because I don't enjoy my voice ....... What am I stealing from my children if I fail to read my scriptures or have sincere prayers....if I don't fulfill my callings because it is to taxing or forget to count my blessings?..... I pray that for my children's sake I will have the strength to overcome, reflect on the traditions of my parents and endure to the end.

Council of a great man........

2008-03-20T20:53:00.000-07:00

I have just been introduced to this new world of 'blogging'..... with the intent of listening to the council of a great man...Pres. Eyring. " I wrote down a few lines every day for years. I never missed a day no matter how tired I was or how early I would have to start the next day. Before I would write, I would ponder this question: “Have I seen the hand of God reaching out to touch us or our children or our family today?” As I kept at it, something began to happen. As I would cast my mind over the day, I would see evidence of what God had done for one of us that I had not recognized in the busy moments of the day. As that happened, and it happened often, I realized that trying to remember had allowed God to show me what He had done. " His experience has helped me to understand the importance of recording my everyday 'Miracles' however great or small, In the hopes that one day my children will grow and recognize the hand of God in their own lives

What a great opportunity for us...let the games begin..........